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Perfectionism revisited....

Perfectionism revisited....

by Bill Sheate

I work with perfectionism among clients a lot, not just in relation to academic work but also in many walks of life and in relation to many facets of daily living.

In “Perfectionism: the modern scourge” I explained what is often going on and why; the constant striving for perfect, but that perfect is so often an unattainable goal. Here I explore a little further some of the diverse manifestations of this challenging issue….. [Read more]

Starting a new adventure - the academic year begins!

Starting a new adventure - the academic year begins!

by Bill Sheate

What are your dreams and expectation of university?

As the 2024-25 academic year begins you may be embarking on your dream course, or maybe you have all sorts of expectations of what university life will be like. Give yourself time to settle in, make friends, socialise - your social network (and by that I mean in-real-life friends and colleagues!) will provide you with the base from which to celebrate the good stuff and cope with the problems in life.

Here are a few of the common issues many students find can end up occupying their time more than they would want ........ [Read more]

Eco-anxiety, eco-distress: finding joy in life again......

Eco-anxiety, eco-distress: finding joy in life again......

by Bill Sheate

Blog 2/2 A practical approach to treatment

In the first of these two extended blogs (Eco-anxiety: what’s in a name?), I noted the way we define emotional responses to environmental change makes a difference to how we might view ourselves and our approach to treatment.  Perhaps in contrast to some other therapists, I approach eco-distress as a manifestation of anxiety, anger, sadness etc in a particular context, rather than as something that is exceptional, unusual etc. Some might even say treatment is not appropriate given anxiety and anger are quite rational responses to the climate emergency. While that may be true, it is problematic, and therefore worthy of ‘treatment,’ when the emotional responses lead to such distress that life loses its meaning, that there is no joy in life any more, and that everything that once seemed important has faded from perception…… [Read more]

Eco-anxiety: what's in a name?

Eco-anxiety: what's in a name?

by Bill Sheate

Blog 1/2

In this first of two blogs, I’m looking at the words we use to describe emotional responses to environmental and climate change, and why it might matter what we call it. In the follow-up blog I’ll look at my own approach to treating eco-anxiety.

Eco-anxiety or Eco-distress?

There is now ample evidence for the prevalence of eco-anxiety (often among young people in particular), with vigorous debate among academics as to our understanding of the relationship between observed emotional, behavioural and cognitive responses to the impacts of climate and environmental change more generally.  Discussion ensues over terminology, categorisation and taxonomy of the psychology associated with climate change and what seems often to be a significant focus on ‘grief’……. [Read more] 

A new academic year........

A new academic year........

by Bill Sheate

How are you approaching your time at university?

With the new 2023-24 academic year now well inderway it’s a good time to get a handle on your approach to learning, studying or research. A model of learning that may have served you well (or at least OK) at secondary school is unlikely to serve you so well at university. Here are a few quick pointers/questions to ask yourself, some equally relevant to whether you are an undergraduate, postgraduate (Taught) or postgraduate (Research - PhD/Doctoral research). There are some issues especially relevant to postgraduate study, e.g. to a one-year Masters or to doctoral research…..[Read more]

Eco-anxiety: an introductory workshop - 16 August 2023 now booking

Eco-anxiety: an introductory workshop - 16 August 2023 now booking

by Bill Sheate

Online 90-minute workshop 16 August 2023, 6.00-7.30pm

This introductory workshop provides an opportunity to share experience and begin to develop a deeper understanding about what eco-anxiety is, and how you can better manage and re-frame your approach to it. It acts as a standalone workshop but also offers the precursor preparation to subsequent individual one-to-one or small group therapy for eco-anxiety if desired.

Programme:

  • Introductions and overview

  • Context and issues

  • Sharing of experience

  • Understanding eco-anxiety and treatment options ……. [Read more]

Maybe I need to change my job......

Maybe I need to change my job......

by Bill Sheate

Career change - stressful or exciting?

There can be many reasons to make a career change or change your job. Stress and work/life balance may be a strong motivating force. Sometimes, however much you try to manage the stress and anxiety, changing the principle stressor in your life - your job - may be the only real option. That can seem even more scary than the stresses your current job is putting you under. But it need not be. Maybe the stress is exactly the impetus you needed to step back and look anew at what’s really important to you and where your job fits into your wider personal values…….[Read more]

It's World Mental Health Day

It's World Mental Health Day

Today - Monday 10 October 2022 - is World Mental Health Day.

Periodically, I post on my blog short articles on key aspects of stress and anxiety, and mental health and well-being, especially related to higher education. Below are just a few of the resources on this blog - clustered in one place so they’re easier to find - that you might find helpful: [Read more]

It's warm out there…..

It's warm out there…..

by Bill Sheate

But surely its HOT - there's a heatwave emergency?

The problem with the language of heatwaves is that it can cause more anxiety than necessary, when the actual purpose of heatwave planning and heat-health alerts is to encourage people to take preventive action, provide advice and mobilise support, especially for the most vulnerable, for whom prolonged high temperatures can be dangerous. But the language and the reporting invariably frames such weather in a highly negative way that creates unhelpful levels of anxiety among many, let alone those who may already experience eco-anxiety.

‘It's hot’ is a judgement……..[Read more]

Labelling issues - the pros and cons

Labelling issues - the pros and cons

by Bill Sheate

The ‘stickiness’ of labels…..

When we’re looking at anxiety or low mood, low self-worth or depression there is a wide range of so-called ‘disorders’ that can be found when searching the internet to try to self-diagnose, as many people will do. DSM 5 - the American Psychological Association (APA) diagnostic reference manual - lists a very long list of disorders and this list has grown with each update to the DSM over the decades, as more issues become classified or re-classified.

For some, getting a diagnosis of a specific disorder is key for opening up treatment and resolution, for example it may confirm something they have long wondered about. But for others, labelling something as a disorder can be a barrier to resolution……… [Read more]

Eco-anxiety: an introductory workshop - now booking

Eco-anxiety: an introductory workshop - now booking

by Bill Sheate

Online 90-minute workshop 13 December 2022 6.00-7.30pm

This introductory workshop provides an opportunity to share experience and begin to develop a deeper understanding about what eco-anxiety is, and how you can better manage and re-frame your approach to it. It acts as a standalone workshop but also offers the precursor preparation to subsequent small group therapy for eco-anxiety if desired.

Programme:

  • Introductions and overview

  • Context and issues

  • Sharing of experience

  • Understanding eco-anxiety and treatment options ……. [Read more]

Anxiety and depression among PhD students

Anxiety and depression among PhD students

by Bill Sheate

The peculiarities of doing a PhD

Back in June 2021 I posted a blog on Rising to the mental health challenges of doing a PhD and how the peculiar circumstances of being a PhD student can affect how you respond to stressful situations. In December 2021 a new report (Hazell et al, 2021 [1]) was published that highlighted once again the high prevalence of depression and anxiety among PhD students in the UK, in line with recent studies in the US, Europe and internationally (e.g. Levecque et al, 2017; Satinsky et al, 2021).

So what's going on? Does it really mean that doing a PhD is bad for your mental health?……. [Read more]

New Tuesday Bloomsbury clinic

New Tuesday Bloomsbury clinic

by Bill Sheate

My Bloomsbury clinic moves to Tuesday from 3 May 2022

From 3 May 2022 my Bloomsbury clinic in Museum Street, WC1A will move to Tuesday afternoons and evenings (rather than Friday mornings). Clinic times will be from 2.00-9.00pm every Tuesday.

This provides me with additional appointment slots to see individual clients in-person (and online via Zoom) and also more space to offer group therapy, e.g. for eco-anxiety (small groups of 3-4 people) over a series of 4-5 sessions). More information on this coming shortly…… [Read more]